Should we try another treatment cycle?
One more cycle
The majority of couples who go through fertility treatment eventually succeed. In most cases, multiple cycles are necessary before pregnancy is achieved. At some point, you or your partner – or the two of you together – may wonder whether to:
- Go ahead with another cycle.
- Take a break, or
- Abandon treatment altogether.
These four questions may help frame your discussion
1. What are our chances of getting pregnant?
If you’re not sure about your chances of conception, discuss your doubts with your doctor. It’s important to know that there is no absolute success rate for treatments. Much depends on your age, the cause of your conception difficulties and the expertise of your medical team. The good news is that there is a large number of potential treatments available. Read more about the success rate of fertility treatments.
2. Is another treatment cycle asking too much of my body?
If you’ve found treatment physically demanding you may question whether you should start another cycle. Discuss any concerns you have about your physical condition with your doctor. Simple lifestyle changes can improve your wellbeing.
3. Are my stress levels too high?
If you feel overwhelmed by stress or are afraid that further treatment might be too much for you, professional psychological support may help. Don’t let a stressed state of mind stand in the way of achieving your pregnancy goal when it can be helped. Use the Fertility Compass to discover if you’re too distressed to continue treatment and whether you should see a psychologist.
4. Can our relationship withstand another round of treatment?
Fertility treatment is a stressful event that not only affects you as an individual, but also as a couple. You may fear that the stress of another cycle will add fresh strain to your relationship.

- You may disagree over how many more treatment cycles to attempt.
- The support you were expecting from one another may not be there.
- Small habits or minor disagreements may become a source of greater friction.
- You may question if your partner shares the same commitment to achieving pregnancy.
- The balance of your life may seem lost. Fertility issues may seem to dominate every conversation.
It’s natural for couples to experience these kinds of problems. You may both be suffering distress, while at the same time looking to each other for support. It may seem difficult to understand how the other is feeling, or how best to help your partner.
You can’t force one another to react in a particular way. However you can discuss your expectations and how friends or professionals can add support. Use the Fertility Compass to see how your relationship will fare in another cycle.
| Remember, the treatment journey belongs to you. Use the Fertility Compass to help organise your thoughts as you decide on another treatment cycle with your partner. |
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